J E Haldeman's Musings: Don’t let people drive who you are and what you do. They will claim all wild theories on why you can’t do you. I spent most of my time pandering to people who said they were friends only to find out they didn’t know me for me. They only wanted their version of me. This holiday season... Be the you that is safe to be. Become a better version than who your surroundings say you are. Don't be afraid. Trans and other Lgbtqia+ people need space and time to heal. #transgender #freakyfriday #saturdaynightsallrightforfighting #ftmtransgender #lgbtqiapride #beyourself